In a boy-to-girl relationship, we can’t really avoid misunderstandings. These misunderstandings are caused by either differences in them, the disagreements within them or the actions done by one of them.
Based on what I see in my surroundings, there are really problems about some women and also to men as well. But in this entry, I will specify more on the problems of women.
For me, based on what I see in our society nowadays, here are some problems that I noticed about the opposite sex:
First, some women are indeed sensitive. Sometimes their sensitiveness become over. This is because they rely more in their feelings and emotions. They decide more through their feelings. But I’m not referring this sensitiveness to all women. If the woman is so sensitive, maybe she can’t tolerate what she’s not capable of doing. We often think that women who are sensitive lose hope immediately. They can’t stand on their own. They need help from people to help them solve their problems. They are dependent and easily affected by criticisms.
Second, some women are so talkative and noisy. Women can’t really stop their mouth from talking a lot. Sometimes their talkativeness can lead to spilling one’s beans which results to controversies and lead to trouble.
Third, some women are trouble-maker. Some women do cause trouble especially when it comes to love life. They also cause trouble when they are being overtaken by someone who is of the same sex. A lot of fights are done by women because of insecurities.
Fourth, some women are moody. Some women depend on their emotions which also affects their mood. Some women really can’t control their emotions that’s why women are really unpredictable. Maybe that is also the reason why women are not that approachable.
Fifth, some women are jealous-type of person. They tend to keep things. They don’t want to share things especially if it is related to feelings for example when it comes to their loved ones. They want much attention from these things. Some women became sensitive when they are just taken for granted.
Sixth, some women are extravagant. They do spend money for their personal satisfaction. Women are “kikays”. They are very conscious about their health. They rather enjoy than suffer. They do not think about threats but rather look for people who they can talk with and share their experiences and problems.
Seventh, some women are weak. There self-appraisal is lower than men and they tend to criticize their selves. They have no confidence in their own performance and they tend to go to the suggestions with other people. They are not that independent.
Eight, some women do not think as a whole they think locally and specifically. They only think on what is present and not the future. I wonder why male do excel in a lot of things. Maybe this is because male think as a whole and think for possible risks. Men do take possible risks than some women who think locally and does not take possible risks because they are afraid that their feelings will be affected.
What I am referring above are the problems about some of the women. Based on what I noticed, this is my personal view on the problem of some women. I think men are women are equal in their capabilities and problems as well. The one’s who have problems with men are the women while those of the women are men not mentioning the third sex. We are only the one who are making these problems.
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