Wednesday, March 28, 2007

I'm All Done!

At last I'm done with my blog. "Graveh, kapoy!".

Exhausting!

Tiring!

Pressure!

I'm done with the blog project and it was fun but exhausting too. "Laliman mo 500-words and 5 entries per week. Mura na siya ug equivalent sa two periodical test".

"Salamat, kaginhawa na ko ug tarong kay mana ko!"...

P.S.
Sir dedication ra ni ha!!!


Poem on Us!

Seasons of Life


I found my friendship on spring

It was like a flower blooming to the extreme

Where everything was in harmony

No one dares to ruin everything

When friendship occurs on summer

The sun was hot and still warm

Feeling the warmth of each other’s love

Caring for those who are in shiver

In fall, I saw leaves falling

Leaves and soil are just becoming one

Wind is beginning to blow on us

And leaves of trees try to peel away

During winter, coldness blankets the air

Things get frozen and chilled

Including important things for us

Causing us to go on our separate ways.



- Tany-

Loneliness: A Poem Critic

Loneliness is such a sad word, isn’t it? It is not new to us anymore, for we experience this feeling almost every day. At the end of every day, when warmth of love disappears in our life we feel loneliness in ourselves. We feel this situation wherein we feel down, experience a feeling of depression and low self-esteem.

Loneliness is a universal phenomenon because all living experiences this kind of situation wherein there is minimal of human contact physically, mentally, spiritually, psychologically and socially.

Our existence also causes existence of loneliness. We all need each other and if we don’t fulfill this law of nature, we experience loneliness which is a very difficult and very unexplainable word.

What does loneliness means? Here is a poem, which does not follow poetry but it still does for it connotes a meaning. Every symbol reflects something and this something that we input in our minds are being interpreted by our minds creating a story and therefore understanding the topic more.

A poem does contain a lot of interpretations and the poem I am going to interpret will be just one of the many interpretations. The difference of our interpretations does not matter, for it expresses and lets our individual minds to work in an imaginative way. The topic will be about loneliness by E. Cummings:

l (a

le

af

fa

ll

s)

one

l

iness

Would you believe this is considered as a poem? Well you should believe that this is a poem for it expresses a meaning to the readers, which is one of the aspects of a poem.

In the first stanza, the letter “l” which means one, meets letter “a”, an article, that also means one or single. If you are only one you are lonely. The apostrophe means that they are separated from each other or they come from different worlds.

The space means that there is really loneliness going on between the two of them.

After they meet which is in the third line, the letter “a” turned into another letter which is “e” and the “l” still remains. The second person already adjusted to the environment.

In the fourth line, the letter ”l” turned to letter “a” and “e” turned to “f”. There is somewhat like an adjustment between the two. The first person adjusted to the second person while the second person also adjusted to the first person as well.

In the fifth line, there is like an exchange of something. This something could be love. There is a mutual relationship going on among them.

In the sixth line, the letter “f” and “a” then turned back into letter “l”. The letter “l” is in typewritten form which outputs the number one. The personas then go back to being alone as what is shown in the next line. This loneliness may be because of some misunderstandings or even a great conflict between the two of them.

In the eight stanza, we see that the letter “l” change to letter “s”. It means that the persona is adjusting to the environment despite the fact that his/her friend is not their anymore.

The ninth and tenth stanza shows the same meaning, one. The persona is still experiencing the sorrow of being lonely. This is also showed in the space after it.

On the last line, we see that the letter “l” changed to small letter “i” which means that it becomes humble. Together with the letter “i” are letters “n”, “e”, “s”, “s”. The persona already gained new friends. For the persona, it is really a need to be humble and adjust really to the environment to attain friends and to acquire happiness and not loneliness. Through the persona’s experiences with his previous friend, he learned a lot of things that in order for a friendship and happiness to last, he/she should be humble enough.

Loneliness is a very painful condition wherein we try to avoid it as much as possible. To disregard loneliness, we try to make new friends and adjust to the new environment. This person will try to be open and to be humble in order for him/her to meet new friends that will make him/her happy again. For a loneliness that we feel, a leaf falls for it is a self-destructing process. Once a leaf falls, all the others will also follow to fall. It is very contagious and we feel that we are not of self-worth.

Tuesday, March 27, 2007

LOVE: An Act of Will, Not of the Heart!

Love: A very deep and hard word that cannot be explained by people who experienced it. Even I cannot explain what love really means. When we fall in love, our heart beats faster. We say that when our hearts beat to the extreme, it means that there is love. But the question is, is it enough to say that when our heart is involved in this kind of feeling we can call it as such?

In the modern day, maybe this explanation will be accepted. We don’t see love as a romantic thing but rather it is a trend in the society nowadays. It is such an instinct for a human to love. We seldom see people involved in such kind of relationship lasts for a lifetime. Love is not a thing that we can just throw when our hearts doesn’t feel the extraordinary feeling anymore.

We discover love by accident and not just when we feel it. Love involves two people. We can call it love if there is mutual relationship. It can either be to your lover, mother, father, brother, sister, classmate, friend and many other people that make them special in your life.

Love is mutual. You feel it because there is willingness between the people involved. You cannot call it love if only one person loves and the other is not. It is love if there is sharing. It is love if it is true to your heart. It is true love if you’re open to one another and most especially, it is love if you are willing to accept the person as a whole-his/her strengths and weaknesses.

Love is really blind for it sees only the good side in you. It doesn’t look on the bad side for you accept the person as who the person really is. As what I’ve said it is not acquired only by one person but rather it is acquired by two people. Love is beneficial for it comforts someone in times of the difficulty. Your love for other person doesn’t bring you down but rather it inspires you. We can really say that love excels a person and never discourages one from achieving from his/her dreams in life.

The beating of our heart is only the result of the love that we acquired from the mutual relationship between two people. The willingness of the two people to accept each other makes the heart grow fonder.

Love is a thing that is being shared and not only experienced by someone. We try to love the person because of the love he/she has given and shared to us. He/she teaches us how to love by doing something that makes us happy and appreciate that thing that he/she does. By this appreciation, we acquire love.

Love is a very contagious thing that cannot be treated unless no one will practice to love anymore. If people learn and share love, love will still exist in this world.

Love is an act of will and not by heart!

Monday, March 19, 2007

Opinion On Being An Only Child!

I really envy those families who are complete: a father, mother and children. My family is not complete physically but I am fully satisfied of my situation now. I have a loving mom and a caring grandmother. My mom is a single parent. Since 1 year old, my father already left us. But having no father is not a hindrance in achieving my dreams. I don’t think myself as an incomplete being having no father at all. I am in a situation where my life is stable even though there are a lot of misunderstandings between my family. Well we can’t really take that away because that has been always constant in our lives.

It really comes to a point that what if I had siblings? Based on my experience as an only child, my mother misses me immediately even though I’m seconds away. She really takes good care of me because she’s afraid that I might get into danger. Sometimes, I really get irritated with my mom because I want to be independent in the sense that I make my own decisions. She thinks of me still as a little boy but I’m not. I’m now big and I can do things on own. I don’t want to be treated like a small child because it only makes me dependent to her. My mother has been so overprotective with me. She still thinks that I cannot make good decisions on my own. I want to prove to my mom that I had already grown up.

I understand why my mom is doing this because she doesn’t want to lose me but sometimes we need privacy and we need to work on our own. We will not succeed if we depend on others. I really don’t like to be treated this way because it only makes me futile. I want to decide on my own and to help them in the near future through my own efforts.

This is also what I learned being an only child that I became more independent because I realized that I will not succeed if I will always depend on my parents. Because of the over protectiveness of my parents, I want to acquire freedom. I need time to decide on my own and I need privacy. I realized that this is my life and I have the control of my life. It is I who will face the consequences of the decisions I make. If they make my decisions, it will not be that sincere for me to accept the consequences.

Those are just some of my opinions. Despite the reasons why I don’t like being an only child, I still thanked God that even though I am in a broken family, I still have my mom and my loved ones beside me who are still there to support me. I also considered it lucky for me to be an only child because my entire parent’s attention is in me.

My mom and I became close friends because we have the opportunity to share each other’s opinions, problems and comments. I treat my mom as my best friend. I tell her my problems and because she knew that I’m already big enough to decide on my own, she let me decide on my own provided that I would also look on the possible consequences that I will be encountering. My bonding with my mom is so much strong. I am very “lambing” to my mom whereas if I have siblings, I will not have the chance to be that close to my mom because the love she will be sharing will be equal to all.

All I can say that being an only child is not that boring. Even though, you have no siblings to share your problems with, your secrets and your crushes, your mom will be the substitute and in return will cause a more strong family relationship.

Cebu City Sports Center

The Cebu City Sports Center (CCSC), then known as the Abellana Oval, had a rich history before it attained its present form.

In 1993, the whole country was gearing up for the 1994 Palarong Pambansa (National Games) and the Visayas region would play as host. Among the Philippine cities and municipalities, Cebu City came out on top as the prime choice. Through the efforts of Cebu City Councilor Augustus Young, Congressman Antonio Cuenco, and Congressman Raul del Mar, Cebu won the bidding for the hosting of the event after they justified Cebu's feasibility for hosting the games.

The foremost question on the mind of the organizers at that time was "Where would the games be held?" The answer that hardly required any thinking was Abellana Oval. The next logical question was "Could Abellana Oval handle the number of guest athletes and competitions from all over the archipelago?"

The organizers realized that, in its state at that time, Abellana Oval could not take on the task. So, the Department of Education, Culture, and Sports (DECS, now renamed to DepEd, or Department of Education), together with the Philippine Sports Commission (PSC) proposed the renovation of the Abellana Oval and the construction of additional facilities which could accommodate the different events of the upcoming 1994 Palarong Pambansa. Cebu City, being the host city, spearheaded and supervised the construction and was given full funding and support by the national government. Cebu City Councilor Augustus Young was appointed overall director of the project.

Detractors of the project doubted whether the project could be finished on time. Councilor Young, though, was quick to assuage the public's doubts through various media, especially in the local print and broadcast media. The project was finished on time, indeed, true to Councilor Young's promise. (A similar pattern of detraction and doubt with regards to finishing a construction project on time arose recently last year during the building of the Cebu International Convention Center.)

Among the improvements made to the Abellana Oval was the rubberization of the oval itself, consisting of 400 meters of world-standard material and specifications. A stadium that could accommodate 12,000 to 15,000 people was also built. Other facilities built in the complex included a 50-meter by 25-meter swimming pool with ten lanes, a 15-meter by 10-meter warmup pool, a gymnasium, a ballroom, a workout area, and multi-purpose rooms for various indoor sports and games such as chess, karate, and scrabble.

The successful construction of the new sports center, now appropriately renamed to Cebu City Sports Center, gave way to Cebu's hosting of the 1994 Palarong Pambansa—CCSC's first successful hosting of a major event.

CCSC's second chance at a bigger event came in November, 2005, when Cebu City played host to the 2005 Southeast Asian (SEA) Games. The sports center was the venue for the opening ceremonies, as well as for seven game categories. Brandon Velasquez said that the preparation for the 2005 SEA Games was very tedious and took up a lot of the organizers' time. Everything went well, though, and the Cebuanos were hailed once again by the international community as a very hospitable people.

With the new Cebu City Sports Center, Cebuano athletes now have a place where their skills could be for future local, national, and international competitions. In fact, from being tenth or eleventh in the rankings for different events, Cebuano athletes rose to fifth place on the charts. The increase in ranking surely gave the Cebuanos much pride in their athletes. The Cebu City Sports Center would hopefully encourage local athletes to perfect their skills and inspire them to excel in sports.

Besides being a sports facility, the Cebu City Sports Center is also the venue for the culmination of the annual Sinulog mardigras held every third Sunday of January.

The Cebu City Sports Center has made a lot of difference in the sports activities of Cebuanos. Because of its accessible location and its world-class facilities, the sports center has encouraged the development of different kinds of sports, as well as inspired many Cebuanos to engage in fitness and health-improving activities. Many go to the sports center for an early morning jog (or walk), or an early morning dip in the swimming pool. Many others go there to play badminton, or to work out at the gym, or to practice ballroom dancing.

DrameFest on its 32nd Year!

Last March 2, 2007 at exactly 6:30 pm, the DramaFest was held in the University of the Philippines High School Open Stage. This is an annual event which is awaited by students, faculty, parents, guests and most especially the UP Alumni. This year, UP High is celebrating its 32nd DramaFest. It became a highlight during that night because aside from its nice weather, the stories were portrayed excellently by the actors and actresses of the different productions. There were only two productions that competed with each other, the Quevedo Productions and the TAnikala Productions. The Quevedo Productions was the production name of Section Gonzales whrerein Euvic FErrer was their Production Manager while Jann Krystel del Mar was their director. On the other hand, Tanikala Productions was the production name of Section Tan wherein RAzel Paldo was the production manager while Artsron Sumabong was the director. Before the start of the event, the performers were not only the ones who were scared of the output of their effort but also the people behind the excellent interpretatioin of the different stories. The two productions were very early and very busy preparing for the start of the event. The technicals, sounds and lights were tested to make sure that they function when its their turn to perform.

Who is behind this big event that all people are waiting for? It’s none other than Dr. Primitivo Ereno who is behind this main event that is usually celebrated during the Fourth Grading Period of the Fourth Years. Before this event, the Seniors were first exposed to Ensemble Acting which is the ABAKADA, the evolution of the Philippine culture, that is celebrated during the Communication Arts Week. For Fourth Periodical Exam, this genius man, let us choose from two options whether it will be an exam or a through a production which is the DramaFest. We, ourselves, chose DramaFest for we don’t want pressure during the Examination Week. Our effort was very fruitful for it gained a lot of good comments from the jurors. It was polished since we had the Critique’s Night wherein we had a lot of flaws in our presentation.

The first to present was the Tanikala Production, which was my production group, with a play entitled, “Bulag” which is a script written by one of the UP students of batch 1990 who was Anna Lee Loquinario. We had to perform the play twice because of the some technical errors especially the House Lights. During the second performance, although the House Lights was not that good, it was well presented because you can really feel the intense emotions of the characters portrayed. I was one of the characters of the story. My role was a squatter. Unfortunately, during the second turn of our presentation, I broke the bottle which caused danger to the characters during that scene. One of the main characters cried in the play because of the trauma he experienced when the bottle broke. After the presentation, it was applauded by the audiences and we can say that it is all worth it. The last part was so intense and was emphasized by Gayle who portrayed one of the main characters of the story when she said the word, “BULAG, BULAG. BULAG!”.

The second to present was the Quevedo Productions with a short story entitled, “Sa Ngalan ng Ama”. The short story was written by a scriptwriter. The story was all about a family which was under a militaristic rule of the father. The father was so strict, disciplined and always on the time. The members of the family had been always following the old system of the “padre de pamilya” until one of his son joined the rebel because of his care for the rebels because these rebels had also the same principle as that of the son. It was so happened that these rebels are the major enemies of his father. During their confrontation, words cannot just explain the reason of the son. It came to a point where all of the family members expressed what is their feeling on the harsh dictatorship of the father. This moment cause the death of the son. This story was full of emotion because I saw some parents who cried because of the presentation.

All I can say that our DramaFest is worth striving for. All our efforts was satisfied when the awards were given. The technical awards went to the Quevedo Productions while those on the Major Awards were grabbed by the Tanikala Productions. Once again, we thank everyone who believed that we can do this tough job and also to our parents as well who understood us whenever we arrived late at home. We are hoping for another fruitful DramaFest next year!

Friday, March 16, 2007

Graduation Stresses!

This April, we will end our high school term in the University of the Philippines High School in Cebu. The four years was so fast for us because we finally came to the point where all of us will have to bid farewell to our schoolmates and to the faculty as well.

Before we make it to the Graduation, we still have to accomplish a lot of things before we bid goodbye to them. We still have to pass a lot of requirements especially in our Research. The research paper was the fruit of our hard labor where we spent our blood and sweat in it. It was exhausting doing this early exposure to the College life. Suppose to be, thesis should be done when we reach College but not in the University of the Philippines where Academic Excellence is the aim. I think all of us were stressed about the Research paper. Since the beginning of the Research subject in Third year, we were already stressed. From the proposal down to the Final copy of our Research paper that will be bound, it was a very crucial and tough job for it will be displayed and use as a basis for the coming generations.

Next week, we will be going to have our Final Periodical Exam. This time, our topics are very hard for it is accumulated from the beginning of the school year. It will be also very stressful because we need to double-time and study well for the Exam for this will be the basis if we will graduate or not. We should be very careful in answering these questions and we hope that we will get high scores. I also hope that all of us will graduate from this Alma Mater which we treat as our second home. The Exam will run for three days with two subjects for two consecutive days and only one subject for the third day. At least, we will not be so stressed on the third day.

Our suffering does not only end there, we still have to submit some of the requirements such as the Graduation Song for our Music class, Biographies of Economists for the Economics class, Production Album in Filipino and the blog for our English class. After the Exam, we still have to double time to submit all our requirements as soon as possible because some of the teachers will go out-of-town to attend meetings, live in other countries and work there and have their vacation. UP High is already late for vacation.

We also have other requirements such as payments for the Prom pictures, class pictures and even the sinking fund as well. I think after we graduate, our pockets will be empty. Not only that, we still have to comply for other teachers of our deficiencies. The clearance signing will be a trouble day for us for we have to be cleared immediately for us to enroll in other campuses. For the UPCAT passers, we will also have to comply for our College Admission in UP High in the assigned dates for us.

After all these exhausting things, we still have to practice our graduation ceremony. I think this practice will not be overloaded anymore because I’m sure that some of us are already cleared. “Some of Us”: I repeat!

This will be the stresses we will be encountering before we go out of the realms of UP High same as what we’ve experienced when we were still in the lower years. Even though it is very stressful, it is still enjoyable for we experience the same pressure together!

Second Thougths on My Future!

For the second time around, my mind messed up again between two courses which I both like. Will I pursue BA Psychology or should I shift to BS ComSci? It is a very hard decision of which I must think quickly to catch up before the enrolment in University of the Philippines Cebu College (UPCC) comes.

At first, my first choice was really Psychology. During those days, I am really interested much in Psychology. I want to understand myself and also my environment through their behaviors and to know what is on their heads. I like Psychology because I like to work in companies, banks and even in schools as well like a teacher or a guidance counselor. I scanned Psychology books and I find them to be quite interesting. But my love for Psychology disappeared because of what Mdm. Hermosa, the Public Speaking Class Adviser, told us. She said that nowadays, the center for excellence in UP Cebu is BS Computer Science. She told us that Computer Science is the best course offered in UP Cebu but there is no assurance that if you take this as a course you will pass. She said that about 5% of the students who took up this course passed and graduated from UP.

Computer Science has been my next option as a course in College. I like this course because first of all, I like computers especially programming, troubleshooting and etc. I find out that when you take Computer Science, you will have a Calculus as one of your subject and because of that I find it to be more interesting because I already knew some of the topics about Calculus. At least, I have already a foundation for that.

Second, when I applied for the DOST scholarship, one of my courses that I checked was the Computer Science field. I also applied for the STFAP of UP Cebu. If I will not be given the chance to be a STFAP scholar, at least if I will pass the DOST Scholarship, I will still have a support.

Third, is that before you graduate, there are already offers for you to work on big computer companies. You will have a sure job after you already graduated.

Fourth, is that I can still use my previous knowledge in Mathematics. All my sufferings in the Math subject will still continue. It is so much painful to know that after you graduate in high school you will stop learning Mathematics which is part of our life. Since I already started it, I can still extend my knowledge in Mathematics especially Calculus. Mathematics and Science as well are fields that has a really a big help nowadays. Even if you don’t become a Computer Programmer, you can either go to jobs that involve Mathematics such as a Mathematics teacher.

Fifth, it has a high salary when you already applied for a job. It is not that difficult to find jobs that need Computer Science graduates for this course goes with the modern technology.

Sixth, in UP Cebu, the training is very intense and you will really be molded.

Seventh, if I graduated, I will have the chance to go abroad which is one of my dreams in life to improve our life better.

I still have confusions about this matter. If you read my previous article about this topic, I stated there why I like Psychology. My aim for all of this is to find job easily after I graduate and at the same time learning.

Computer Science requires a lot of analysis while Psychology requires a lot of research. Computer Science requires a lot of studying while Psychology requires a lot of reading, analysis, interviews for their research and the researching itself. For Psychology, it is not really my type reading a lot of books, communicating to the people or even researching in the internet for previous studies. That really makes me bored. The Psychology in UP Cebu is mainly on research while for Computer Science it requires application.

I better go with application, for the world needs application of ideas nowadays to improve the lives of the people.

It is a challenge for me and I hope whatever my decision will be, it will be successful.

Saturday, March 10, 2007

How I Want to Be Remembered After I Leave High School

Four years before, I started to enter the realms of UP High School. At first, I was scared because I thought my expectations will fail. That expectation is to have more friends and that I can find real friends. When I was in elementary, I was really active in class and also when it comes to my classmates and friends. But after I graduated in elementary, the world had its counterclockwise direction. A lot of changes happened; I started to become silent and sometimes a loner. Loner, not in the sense of being alone but in a sense of going out with only few friends which is still my best friends until now. I started to become sensitive with my environment during that time. That was not my real attitude. My attitude is that of being happy, active, jolly, joker, friendly and not that silent type of person. That is really who I am. I am a childish person because since I was young I didn’t have a sibling to play with but I played with my friends. If my friends are not there, I used to play alone guided by my grandma because my mom had to work.

When I entered high school, I started to have a low self-esteem and low self-confidence. Sometimes, I got sad and depressed because of my low self-esteem. I am a type of person who really loves to have friends but since I showed them at first that attitude, the silent me, they thought that I am not that friendly and approachable.

I told myself, that if I will continue that kind of personality, I will easily lose hope because of lack of inspiration. My inspirations in life are God, my family and my friends. When, I think of them, I gained hope. Because of that realization, I learned a lesson.

The lesson I learned is the saying that, “Be yourself”. If you are being yourself, you will learn to know your strengths and weaknesses. Because of what I did when I entered high school, I had a hard time discovering the real me. It came to a point wherein I got stranded in an island because I lost the real me. But with the help of God, my family and friends, my inspirations in life, they rescued me from the misery I experienced.

I understand that we have to adjust to our environment but we must bear in mind that we should adjust accordingly by making sure that we don’t forget our real identity and personality. Once we adjust, we forgot ourselves. Thanks to my batch mates, who are one of my saviors. They led me to the right path. I will not forget all the memories that we have shared and experienced together. I really thanked God for giving me such good classmates and also good friends. I can really say that they are really different from other friends that I’ve known. In good times and in bad, we all held hands and we have recovered from the tragic events we’ve experienced.

Guys, you molded me into becoming a good person.

Thank you so much for being part of my life. Thanks for making my high school life enjoyable and memorable.

This is what I wanted to be remembered when I leave high school.

BATCH 2006-2007! GOD BLESS AND GOD SPEED!

P.S.
“ Amardz kayo ko! Hehe!”

"Tan-Aw Ra Ba, Ibog Ka!"

The Look

Strephon kissed me in the spring,
Robin in the fall,
But Colin only looked at me
And never kissed at all.

Strephon's kiss was lost in jest,
Robin's lost in play,
But the kiss in Colin's eyes
Haunts me night and day.

n Sara Teasdale

This is a two stanza poem by Sara Teasdale. This poem, even though it is short it has a deep and big meaning if you will really scrutinize each stanza and if combined, you will have a generalization which is meaningful.

In the first stanza, Strephon and Robin kissed the girl but Colin expressing his love not by a kiss but through a look in her eyes.

In the second stanza, Strephon and Robin’s kiss got lost suddenly just because of Colin’s look in her eyes. The persona in the story longs for Colin’s expression of love after she saw that look.

I believe in the saying that the eyes are the windows of our soul. Maybe because the eyes are not only for seeing things but also for commanding our feelings. When we talk about soul, it is somewhat connected to our feelings and emotions because we cannot see soul but rather we feel that we have soul because without our soul, we cannot do things or even move. We will be futile if we have no soul. It is also the same if you’re ask if you can see things in your mind like mental pictures. Do mental pictures really exist in your brain? The answer is that we can’t see it but rather we experience and feel that we have mental pictures in our head.

In the selection the saying, “Eyes are the windows of our soul”, is the theme of this story. I will not elaborate much on love because this saying tells it all. I believe that all of us experience this kind of feeling like in the two-stanza poem. For me, just a look in the eyes has a deep meaning to me rather than a kiss. But I’m not saying that I’m a “feeler”. We can’t really deny that. A “look” is very meaningful even just for a second. I think that it is an instinct of a person to feel something with just one look. A look like I said has a lot of meaning and it depends on us on how we react on that thing.

Looking is much more sincere than actions and words. Like for example, we can tell if a person is sincere, if we can see in his/her eyes that he is really sincere and only our instincts can determine that.

It is our eye that sees everything and it is also our eye that connects us all. It is hard for us to answer why a look is more significant than expressing things through actions or words. Maybe because, we are not aware of it. We are unconscious about it and for me; it is really sincere if we don’t have an idea about it. Just like in love, for example, if we are to ask why we love that person and we don’t know the reason, we can really tell that we are sincere because we don’t let our brain think but rather we trust our feelings and we rather follow them. It is our feeling that makes a thing special.

Once again, to summarize it all, the selection only tells us that it is more memorable for us of a look than an action or a word. Like a picture, painting a thousand words, a look says a lot of things. It is window to our soul, thus by looking, it enters our soul thus having a deep meaning for us that only we can understand and appreciate.

That’s all and thank you!