Tuesday, March 27, 2007

LOVE: An Act of Will, Not of the Heart!

Love: A very deep and hard word that cannot be explained by people who experienced it. Even I cannot explain what love really means. When we fall in love, our heart beats faster. We say that when our hearts beat to the extreme, it means that there is love. But the question is, is it enough to say that when our heart is involved in this kind of feeling we can call it as such?

In the modern day, maybe this explanation will be accepted. We don’t see love as a romantic thing but rather it is a trend in the society nowadays. It is such an instinct for a human to love. We seldom see people involved in such kind of relationship lasts for a lifetime. Love is not a thing that we can just throw when our hearts doesn’t feel the extraordinary feeling anymore.

We discover love by accident and not just when we feel it. Love involves two people. We can call it love if there is mutual relationship. It can either be to your lover, mother, father, brother, sister, classmate, friend and many other people that make them special in your life.

Love is mutual. You feel it because there is willingness between the people involved. You cannot call it love if only one person loves and the other is not. It is love if there is sharing. It is love if it is true to your heart. It is true love if you’re open to one another and most especially, it is love if you are willing to accept the person as a whole-his/her strengths and weaknesses.

Love is really blind for it sees only the good side in you. It doesn’t look on the bad side for you accept the person as who the person really is. As what I’ve said it is not acquired only by one person but rather it is acquired by two people. Love is beneficial for it comforts someone in times of the difficulty. Your love for other person doesn’t bring you down but rather it inspires you. We can really say that love excels a person and never discourages one from achieving from his/her dreams in life.

The beating of our heart is only the result of the love that we acquired from the mutual relationship between two people. The willingness of the two people to accept each other makes the heart grow fonder.

Love is a thing that is being shared and not only experienced by someone. We try to love the person because of the love he/she has given and shared to us. He/she teaches us how to love by doing something that makes us happy and appreciate that thing that he/she does. By this appreciation, we acquire love.

Love is a very contagious thing that cannot be treated unless no one will practice to love anymore. If people learn and share love, love will still exist in this world.

Love is an act of will and not by heart!

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